I went to my parents' house in Coos Bay for my birthday and a few days before Christmas. The boys and I had a good time lazing about and having family meals and playing games and going to see Avatar (which I enjoyed). It should be noted, though, that driving 200 miles to see a movie is not, in fact, cheaper than going to a Regal Cinema in Portland. It was close, though.

So I'm home, and even though December continues to lurk in its lurky way just waiting to spring on me with a double helping of misery, this is unequivocally my best Christmas in a very long time. It's the first Christmas since 9/11 that I haven't actively felt poor. I think part of it is the overall quality of living, a significant part of it is having an actual partner and co-parent in the house, and a good part of it may be that I didn't set myself up for failure by making shopping lists in September.

Of course, the surprise gift from my mother's eldest son didn't hurt either, seeing as how it was essentially an extra paycheck plunked into my lap. I need to get that thank-you note done before the boys go to their dad's. I think I'll write an annual newsletter, too. Later.

Recent (i.e., within the last 3 months) highlights:
butterfly's cousin "Grace" (not her real name, as ever) moved in.
Dawlmesh's daughter moved in, and will henceforth be referred to as Daughter. She fits between Son2 and Son3 in age.
Dawlmesh and I negotiated for a lease-option on the manor with thegrungediva.
butterfly will be moving out in about a week. I have hope that once roommate angst is in the past, our friendship can rebuild. Of course, that depends on how bitter she is that I made the call before she was really ready to go. *crosses fingers*
Hours at work got cut from 40 to 36 - so I still have dental benefits, but the paychecks are a wee bit smaller.
The tax code got updated, so I'll be claiming all three boys this year instead of letting KOP have one. Before it didn't make a difference; now it does.
And stuff happened. *shrug*

( The TV I want - because folks have asked.... )